Iss Valentines Day Again.........! ! !

                                        

Love is in the air all where.....Boyfriends have started scratching their heads again thinking how to get rid of spending money. Gals have started mulling on how to make their boyfriends spend more and what is the thing which they should ask their boyfriend on this valentine.

All the guys across the country become tense in the month of Feb as it brings with itself a little of love and oodles of spending on gals. Budget for this month is already out of hands and this is making them nuts. Hug day, Kiss day, Cholocate day, teddy bear day,rose day and so on......I seriously feel pity on guys who have girlfriends. Guys are just blaming cupid for giving them a Heart for which they are now paying so heavily. What for.......Just to keep their hearts beeping for the same girl. And if he does not do anything on Valentines Day then the remarks and criticism which he will be receiving from his girlfriend will be more powerfull than the impact of Atom Bomb which was dropped on Nagasaki and Hiroshima by America. First of all the silent war or cold war will happen for a few days and then the guy will have to spend again to woo her girlfriend back. So it is better to spend money on Valentines itself as he is not left with any other option but spending.

Girls feel lucky in the second week of Feb as they have got the freedom to ask for gifts and it becomes righteous too to ask for anything from their boyfriend. Chocolates, roses and teddy bears are the things which girls have already received till Valentines. Because of all these so called love festivals, even the rates of Roses and price of teddy bears become exorbitant. I remember last to last years story of mine(When I too had a gf), I was in my MBA in delhi and thought of presenting a Bouquet to my gf as that was the first Valentines together for us. So I went to buy a bouquet for her on the eve of 13th feb. And the sky rocketing price of single rose blew my mind up. Anyhow I managed for a Bouquet by spending some 600-700 bucks.

But the thing which matter is our Love, and can not we spend some money to keep our love happy. What if I am spending few thousands of those useless paper for the happiness of the one whom I love. Money can be made again but How to get the girl again who stole your heart when you once saw her first time. Anyways guys are so benevolent......can not they spend a few on their own girlfriends.....Why not....I have always done it and know thay all the Guys are also same like all the girls are......! ! ! ! !


You all know what.........This is the case only for initial few years and that is why Valentines matters the most only for Youths. If we are talking about Love....then why not make your everyday a Valentine.....? ? ? ? And why to wait for a day to express your love.....We can do it anytime. What I have realised is that, ofcourse the day has a special meaning but Love does not starts or ends with these things. Now, when I am not with my girlfriend, I have realised that it was never the money which mattered, It is the passion with which you love the girl which takes your relationship for a long run. It is the care which you do for your girlfriend which makes her feel secure.

And the biggest fact is that girls already know these things and they never want guys to do something real big(in terms of money). It is just that at the end of the day they also have feelings and desires which materialize at this time of the year as nobody can call them selfish or greedy. Who will not love to get gifts from their beloved ones. Even guys will.........! ! !

So the gist of the whole story is that Let your girl demand for things.......make your Valentines special....but not only with gifts.......Express your love also from the bottom of your heart and make her feel that how much you Love her.......Make this Valentines special, not only for her but for yourself too......Express yourself in the best possible manner which will help you take your relationship a long mile.

Happy Valentines Day to All of you in Advance........! ! ! ! !

Why do Women hate cats

Not intended to offend any women's/gals feeling, but it is a fact that women usually hate cats(Esp in India whereas russian women love to keep cats) and kitten whereas guys find it(cats) beautifull. I am just trying to explore the truths behind it and there is no guarantee/warranty of the veracity of the below mentioned reasons. And you are totally allowed to not to agree with it. If you feel like then you may even put your dislikings in the comments section.

Now without digressing from our main topic, usually girls pretend to love pets a lot(they love them too usually if it is not their own one....and it belongs to their friends......hehehehe). They will never forget to mention terms like....Awwww......Woowww......Cuteeee.....Beautifull....Cutiepie....etc etc etc(If I will start mentioning all the terms used by gals then I will have to write a seperate BLOG for it which I will certainly think about later). But girls rarely prefer to adopt pets for their own. What can be the reasons for it. No guesses........No worries....I will be giving you all.

First(which I feel) is that they are also lazy like guys(but still guys love to have a pet) but gals dont go for it. As an example when girls feel hungry but dont feel like cooking anything or going outside....they just don't eat anything(and consider it a kind of Dieting for themselves....which they always enjoy). But if they will be having a cat, then they can not do these kind of things because they will have to give food atleast to the cat, which will make them do some work which they dont like at all(as they usually dont like doing their own work and look for 'BAKRA' who can do their work......Forget about doing work for others/cats).

Second, they feel that who will be taking care of pets When they even can not take care of themselves (and usually look for boyfriends/Friends who can take care of her). They think(or even they are sure of this thing) that who will be taking care of two stupids(not used in any pejorative way, dont take it adversely gals) as they are sure of themselves and also know that cats are also of their own category

Third, Girls always want to be loved and that too at the cost of not returning the same favour. This is a similarity(I must say) between cats and women as even cats are very selfish and they just want to be loved without returning the favour. This is not the case with dogs and puppies as they reciprocate their love by even loving us more. Cats only love you the time when they feel hungry or they feel alone. Isn't it the same case with girls.....? Guys love them at all the times and they dont even care for it and even say that 'Itna Chep kyun ho rahe ho/tum bahut bade chipku ho'. Gals only love guys(Boyfriends/friends) when they have to either do some shopping or have to get some work done through them. Similarly cats are also mean. They usually sleep or run/roam through out the place and come to you only when they feel either hungry or alone.

Fourth, Girls just love to fight with someone who does not reverts back with same anger,vigour and velocity which is not the caase with cats. If you will be fighting with a cat, she will just take her nails out and will draw the map of the world on your body parts(as gals do with their nails on their boyfriends' body parts after having fight with them) Gals just like beating others down but that is not the case with cats and they reciprocate this favour of everyone atleast which again girls dont like.

Fifth, Cats and girls both leave their lovemarks(nails/cuts etc) when rarely they feel like loving someone. Girls usually dont like marks and cuts on their own body as they are extra-cautious of their body and hence this is another reason for them to not to love cats.

Sixth, Both girls and cats are wild and probably that is why guys love cats as well as gals as was mentioned by SRK in Don1 and Don2 - "Meri Jangali Billi(My wild Cat)". Guys like the wildness of both these species till the time they watch it from outside, but the moment it becomes their own they find it difficult to manage and then they think that Wild gals are only meant for making galfriends and not for marriage.

Seventh and the biggest reason, We as a human being dont like to see our bad things. Keeping a cat in home for girls means that they will have to see their own reflection at all the times. Howsoever bad someone is.....but nobody likes to remember it at all the times. And it is better to remember it occassionally rather than seeing it everytime in front of your eyes. And so gals avoid to keep cats as pet


What soever the case is, But still i must admit that even if guys are so intelligent that they can co-relate relation between cats and women but still They end up becoming a slave of all these girls only. I surrender in front of you gals....You always win nodoubt.....and I can not argue for it even.


Courtesy: To get all these experiences, the whole credit goes to my one and only Kitten-Kamini(Call her Kaaaamini and not kamini at all.....you envious gals....below is her photo) and my ex-girlfriend.


My Cute kitten: Kamini


Article By:
Pushpak Pandey
Dedicated to my loving cat 'Kamini'

Live In Relationships: Why People are still afraid of Accepting it.....? ? ?

Forbidden Fruit is always desired.....!

We all know this cliche and agree to it to certain extent. Same is the case with Live-in-relationships.

We(Singles Like me) all are covetous of all the guys or gals who are into these kind of relationships. To get involved in something clandestine is enjoyed by sundry and all(Do you remember the childhood days when we used to steal 50paisa or 1 ruppee from mamma's purse and used to go to confectionery shop to buy candies. I used to do it a lot)

Live-in-relationship is a thing which is happenning a lot now a days but still people are afraid of accepting it in open/daylight. There are numerous people engaged in it but not telling a single thing to their parents. Gender is not an exception here. Guys and gals are equally engaged and hiding these relationships from the world for no reason. In Metros like delhi, bangalore, chennai and hyderabad, people have even started accepting it to a certain extent but in cities like lucknow, kanpur, ghaziabad, chandigarh etc. people prefer not to say anything in favour of this kind of relationship. Love is still considered as a sin in most part of this country(a country where Lord Krishna always talks of 'Love' and the Love of Lord Rama and Sita is always remembered and celebrated, A country where 99 percent of the bollywood films are based on Love)

Till now it was about the current situation of Indian society about the acceptance or unacceptance of these relationships. But Have we ever given a single thought why this is happenning in our country only. Probably I have got a few answers for it.

First, Our fathers and fore-fathers have not seen this kind of age or era where a guy and a gal preffered to stay together without getting married to each other. They(kind of) consider it as a profanity or blasphemy which certainly it is not(my view). They feel that living with a girl before marriage is sin as we should not be involved in sex before marriage. Do they have a valid answer to proove their point. Certainly not. Doing sex before marriage might be wrong for the most of the "Indian" orthodox people but today's youth is not able to digest it and hence they are getting frequently involved in these surreptitious relationships. It is just that they are afraid of their parents to reveal there 'Deeds' because they know that it Will be considered as a 'Misdeed'. Ohhh Gosh.....these so called moral Boundaries(Most of the people will call me either ultra-modern or pompous or they might even call me a person having no morals, but I dont belong to any of these categories......I am just an ordinary Indian common man who wants to express himself)

Second, Still We look forward to our parents for making the final decisions for us. Even if We are a gene of Bond-007, but at the end of the day we are answerable to our parents and are not allowed to take an independent decision or else we will be considered as a child who does not listens to his parents.

Last, But not the least, We ourselves are not so sure of the veracity of the relationship which we step in and hence We think that there is no use of telling it to parents as the relationship will be getting over in a day or so(figuratively and not literally). And on the other side we have a thing in our mind that if our relationship becomes success then we will tell our parents about the relatinship(and not at all about the Live-in stuff) and will be getting married to each other. I just don't get one thing: Whether these people dont have faith in their own relationship or they dont believe their parents.......Anywayz they just create problem for themselves by hiding it from their parents as at the end of the day they are blamed of cheating or treasory or sedition.....either by their parents or by the girl/guy. Still people are preffering to go for surreptitious Live-in relations.

I think this is the time to Stand for youself or else God help these poor Chaps or atleast give them the courage to show there 'Audacity' so that atleast they themselve dont feel like doing a thing which is a sin.

Article By:
Pushpak Pandey